Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Many reasons to SMILE

Can happiness be taught?
A happiness conference was held in Sydney with speakers including the Dalai Lama but can people be taught to be happier?
Being happy doesn't come naturally to everyone, says Timothy Sharp, founder of the Happiness Institute. His organisation runs a range of courses designed to teach people how to be more content in their personal and professional lives.
"Happiness means different things for different people. There is no doubt that people can change the way they think about things," he says.
Dr Sharp's 21 tips for a happier life

Tip 1: Make happiness a priority. If happiness is not at the top of your list then other things will take precedence.
Tip 2: Make plans to be happy. Just like in any other life domain, the successful pursuit of happiness requires planning.
Tip 3: Set happy goals. Following on from tip two, planning requires effective goal setting.
Tip 4: Do things that make you happy. Although this sounds obvious, many people simple forget to do things from which they gain pleasure. And do them as often as possible.
Tip 5: Set yourself tasks from which you’ll gain satisfaction. Make sure that when you’re planning your tasks and activities you include things that might not be fun, but from which you’ll gain a sense of achievement.
Tip 6: Play and have fun. Don’t take life too seriously. Although we all have responsibilities there’s no reason why we can’t approach much of our lives in a playful manner.
Tip 7: Identify where your strengths lie. Know where your faults and weaknesses are to avoid problems. Know where your strengths lie to be really happy and to succeed in life.
Tip 8: Utilise your strengths. Although we all can and should endeavour to improve in areas in which we’re weak there’s just as much, if not more, to be gained from focusing on the maximal utilisation of your strengths, including all your positive qualities and attributes.
Tip 9: Be curious. Constantly search for new ways to be happy. Keep a look out for new ways to approach life and to have fun.
Tip 10: Be grateful and appreciate what you have. There's no doubt, that gratitude and appreciation will significantly increase your chances of experiencing happiness.
Tip 11: Learn to like and ideally to love yourself. We must love before we can be loved. To love others and to be loved by others is a key component of happiness.
Tip 12: Invest time and energy in to your key relationships. Happy people spend more time working on and in their relationships. Happy people tend to be more supportive of other people in their life.
Tip 13: Socialise and interact with others as much as possible. Happy people have both more and better quality relationships. So as well as working to improve the quality of your relationships (as noted in tip 12) it’s also worthwhile working to improve the number of your relationships.
Tip 14: Weed out unhelpful thoughts. Learn first to identify your thoughts and then begin to challenge those that are negative and unhelpful.
Tip 15: Plant happier, optimistic thoughts. As noted in Tip 14, there are two parts to developing helpful, optimistic thinking. The first is to weed out unhelpful negative thoughts and the second is to plant more positive, optimistic ones. This is essentially a skill, and like any other skill becomes easier and more effective with practice.
Tip 16: Live a healthy life. Eat well and keep active. Exercise regularly. Although not impossible, it’s difficult to be happy if you’re constantly sick and not very healthy.
Tip 17: Ensure you gain adequate sleep and rest. Consistent with Tip 16, it’s difficult to be happy if you’re constantly tired and struggling to find enough energy to get through the day.
Tip 18: Manage your time and priorities. Happy people tend to believe they’re more in control of their lives. In doing so, they’re more likely to take an active approach to solving problems.
Tip 19: Control what you can control. Accept what you can’t control. And learn to be wise enough to know the difference.
Tip 20: Live in the present moment. The only moment in which we can truly be happy is the present moment. The only moment over which we have control is the present moment. So be happy now.
Tip 21:Develop happiness routines and make them a part of your every day living.
I have to say I am HAPPY my white cell count has nearly doubled, WOOHOO it is low but doubled, it is just as I thought other than the migraines I'm good, good, good.
I wont say for know because I believe its for always I am keeping positive and this was just the boost I needed. Better and Better each day 32 weeks can you believe it. I only have 16 weeks left. A walk in the park guys, a stroll through the woods.
Life is good friends.
Take Care of each other: I wish you all Health;Happiness; Love and Longevity.

13 Comments:

At 8:53 pm , Blogger ::Bek Geach:: said...

Love you babes.
Bx

 
At 9:51 pm , Anonymous Anonymous said...

That is truly wonderful about your cell count, I'm very happy for you.

Those tips are certainly helpful and worth keeping in mind but I think happiness starts from within and a lot is to do with attitude. Decide to be happy and you will be.

Great news Shaz.

Belinda

 
At 11:41 pm , Blogger BlazngScarlet said...

Doubled???
That's FANTASTIC Shaz! :)


We make that choice every day whether we will be happy, and let happiness into our hearts.
Some days aren't so good, but I DO find happiness in every single day!

 
At 11:56 pm , Blogger cherry girl said...

Wahoo! So glad to hear that it's doubled! :) Sounds like you've got a hectic and fun weekend so I hope you enjoy that and thanks for all those passed on tips to happinesss :) I love ideas on how to be happy, it's odd how you can forget what makes you happy, I have now got a long list of a hundred things that make me happy, so I better get to doing them :) (Although, making lists makes me happy too, so i'm already on a roll! ;))

 
At 8:40 am , Blogger Wanda said...

Oh such good news.....Doubled!!! and don't you know those wonderful happiness tips are part of the medicine!!! The Good Book talks about happiness being good medicine!!
Can you see how happy I am for you dear? (((smile))) (((smile)))
XOXOXO

 
At 8:45 am , Blogger Walker said...

GREAT NEWS !!!!!!!!!
And who is happy now eh eh.
16 weeks is a walk in the park like you said.

Have a great day

Oh and Happy is seeing friends Happy :)

 
At 9:10 am , Blogger awareness said...

Shaz.....that is fabulous.....your terrific news AND your beautiful smile.......fabulous!!

ps. i like this list as well....interesting how you and i both wrote about happiness, though from different angles. :)

 
At 2:55 pm , Blogger Footpad said...

First off, thanks for the list of happiness tips. I'll be re-reading that from time to time.

Next, terrific news re: the white blood cell count. You're doing great! Hang in there.

-- f

 
At 3:58 pm , Blogger JP (mom) said...

I'm doing the freakin' HAPPY DANCE about your white cell count!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHOO HOO!!

This just made my night. Love you lots!! xx, deb

 
At 3:31 am , Blogger Deb R said...

I adore this post, Shaz. As someone who believes that so much of happiness is a choice, it resonates with me.

YAYYYYYYYYYY on your improved white cell count!!!!!!! Yeah, baby!!!!!

 
At 1:36 pm , Blogger Deb said...

Wonderful news & a wonderful 'happiness' list.

 
At 8:33 pm , Anonymous Anonymous said...

didnt read it all but looked at the pics and NICE SMILE :)

 
At 12:04 pm , Blogger Shannon said...

Great News! I like that happiness list, I need to start applying that to my life!

 

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